We’ve
all made mistakes and harbor regrets. This means different things to each
of us. Within our regrets we see the worst of ourselves. Because of this,
we sometimes deem ourselves as unworthy and we title ourselves the same! We
may relive and rehash our disappointments and then stay close to what we have purposely
classified ourselves because we believe we deserve it. Such is the business of regret! In
doing so we unwittingly starve our souls of the one thing that it deserves -forgiveness...and
within that an ability to begin again…to change!
A
Mistake is, in itself, a definition of a misdeed -not a defining of who we are
as a person...yet many of us internally overlook this truth! Some are
forced to live under the weight of our mistakes due to the legal repercussions
of our choices. Some of us live under its weight to self-punish.
With these and other reasons, we struggle with our mistakes- for they
usually bring such toil.
There
is one thing powerful enough to free us from the bonds of our mistakes; unfortunately,
we humans would rather struggle and search the world for another way to rectify
our missteps. However, most times there is only one way out and that is
through the power of forgiveness! It’s amazing to me that forgiveness has
so much sway. It is literally a legal tool called probation; a financial tool
called a write-off; a relational tool called recommitment; a parental tool
called unconditional love; a compassionate tool called mercy and a spiritual
tool called salvation. Forgiveness releases us; it frees us.
Forgiveness saves us from a moral, emotional death and as Christians we
believe it is a spiritual mechanism that saves us from an eternal death. Scripture says….
“For the
wages of sin is death,
but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
Romans
6:23
We
all know that here on earth sin presses in and never release us- for we are
chronically pursued by a restless heart-that is wicked above all else. There will never be away around sin and
selfishness…and avoidance of this truth is irrational. Therefore, something more spiritual will have
to reign. Even those of us that are not
necessarily “religious” use the invisible tool of forgiveness to maintain
relationships with others. This is the
same concept Christians use to stay in the will of God. You see, there must be
a way to reconcile our sinful hearts and find some peace. Forgiveness is the way, yet mortal man did
not have the ability to accomplish this- so God, Himself had to come to earth
to set an example. He did so through the
body and teachings of Jesus, Christ. The truth that we need to be saved from
our own wickedness is morally obvious, yet it gets clouded in this immoral
world! Forgiveness brings
the exact clarity we need!
“Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no
regret,
but worldly sorrow brings death.”
but worldly sorrow brings death.”
2 Corinthians 7: 10
When
we find that we can’t stand the weight of our mistakes any longer...and when we
feel that the person we’ve become is simply not what we were meant to be...a
mental and spiritual door appears before us. With this juxtaposition, change
has just placed itself on the horizon and presented us an alternative to our current
existence. Frequently, it takes more time than necessary to
arrive at this doorway leading to change...but it will present itself sooner or
later....because through the conscious mind the Holy Spirit has a way of
bringing things that are not....into being. The world of psychology may
call it mind-over-matter and others may simply title it serendipity, but I call
it divine intervention. No matter what you deem it....it will eventually
arrive and will not delay for that is how God works.
There
is a scripture that I love that speaks of this exact serendipitous intervention:
“For the
revelation awaits an appointed time;
it speaks
of the end and will not prove false.
Though it
linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay.”
Habakkuk 2:3
This
seems like a tongue twister...or a mystery to be solved. To me it is a
form of power- the power of the written word. The writer is stating with
certainty that the appointed time will arrive and will not delay.
The
act of forgiveness may linger unused but will arrive in our lives when we
graciously surrender ourselves to it. Either way, it has an appointed
time and will ultimately end our suffering. It is our choice if
forgiveness lingers...or comes without delay. We can wait in
the realm of bitterness till its nasty affects leave us resentful and rotten...yet
sooner or later forgiveness will present itself as the merciful option for all
involved. We will either surrender and forgive or doom ourselves to this
bitterness and its canny ability to consume us to the very end.
Truly
you are aware that the ability to forgive is held within you. There is something in us that stirs this
hope. IT is my belief that God placed it there, as a
gift. This blessed and merciful gift is
there for us to give without hesitation and without being asked-to others and
most importantly to ourselves. To do so,
we may have to push past the reputation we’ve created for ourselves and find
our integrity.
“The Son is the radiance of God’s glory
and the exact representation of
his being, sustaining all things by his powerful word.
After he had provided purification for sins,
he sat down at the right hand of the Majesty in heaven.”
Hebrews 1: 3
Song Recommendation:
Changed
By: Rascal Flatts
By: Rascal Flatts
This
writing is about forgiveness between us humans.
The gift of forgiveness is the basis of Christianity and is the example
we use in our pursuit to forgive. The
ultimate act of forgiveness was exhibited when Jesus died on a cross like a
criminal to pay a debt. The debt he paid
was not His own…. but ours; mine and yours! When a crime is committed a punishment
ensues. Sin is the crime and a mortal
body is the punishment. As a Christian
we believe that Jesus died on the cross as a final punishment to our criminally
sinful nature and He rose again on the 3rd day as an indication that
He defeated sin and death. We have a
spiritual victory over human nature and an eternal promise through our belief
in Christ. In other words, We are a
spiritual being with an eternal destiny. Let's not miss it!
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